For a young woman, a dream in which she is unable to make a choice in favour of a particular admirer means that her frivolous behaviour gives rise to gossip from enemies. Getting a gift from an unknown admirer means that you should not lend money because you risk not getting it back. If you dream that your admirer has turned from a good-looking man into a miserable old man, then in reality you tend to make hasty decisions. To find out about the death or serious illness of your admirer means that you are too attached to him. Think about whether your feelings are mutual.