If you have a dream that you have a lover, but it is not true, then in real life you should seriously consider whether everything is good in your relationship with your spouse. Behind the external well being often hide misunderstandings, misunderstandings and, consequently, alienation. For a married woman, a dream in which she secretly meets with a man means that she feels unclaimed as a person. Perhaps, by getting married and dedicating herself to her family, she gave up hobbies and activities that allowed her to realize herself. A dream in which you enjoy being close to a lover warns you that you can go too far and bring trouble to your family. You need to decide what is more important to you.